You may probably know that Chinese people usually choose an auspicious date for the wedding. Choosing a good date for marriage will bring fortune and luck to both the couples and the two families involved. As a result, choosing the date becomes a very important issue. Planning to get married in the 2019 and undecided […]
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You may probably know that Chinese people usually choose an auspicious date for the wedding. Choosing a good date for marriage will bring fortune and luck to both the couples and the two families involved. As a result, choosing the date becomes a very important issue. Planning to get married in the 2018 and undecided […]
You may probably know that Chinese people usually choose an auspicious date for the wedding. Choosing a good date for marriage will bring fortune and luck to both the couples and the two families involved. As a result, choosing the date becomes a very important issue. Planning to get married in the 2017 and undecided […]
You may probably know that Chinese people usually choose an auspicious date for the wedding. Choosing a good date for marriage will bring fortune and luck to both the couples and the two families involved. As a result, choosing the date becomes a very important issue. 2016 is the year of Monkey in the Chinese […]
You may probably know that Chinese people usually choose an auspicious date for the wedding. Choosing a good date for marriage will bring fortune and luck to both the couples and the two families involved. As a result, choosing the date becomes a very important issue. 2015 is the year of sheep in the Chinese […]
You may probably know that Chinese people usually choose an auspicious date for the wedding. Choosing a good date for marriage will bring fortune and luck to both the couples and the two families involved. As a result, choosing the date becomes a very important issue. 2014 is the year of horse in the Chinese […]
You may probably know that Chinese people usually choose an ausipicious date for the wedding. Choosing a good date for marriage will bring fortune and luck to both the couples and the two families involved. As a result, choosing the date becomes a very important issue. 2013 is the year of snake in the Chinese […]
You may probably know that Chinese people usually choose an ausipicious date for the wedding. Choosing a good date for marriage will bring fortune and luck to both the couples and the two families involved. As a result, choosing the date becomes a very important issue. 2012 is the year of dragon in the Chinese […]
Some people also want an auspicious timing for events such as fetching the bride and entering the groom’s home. Check the auspicious rating under “今天时辰吉凶”. The timings are listed as 吉 auspicious timing, 中 neutral timing and 凶 fierce or bad timing. Choose those that are 吉 or 中 and avoid timing listed as 凶. […]
Feb 14 2010 is the start of Chinese new year of Tiger. As the new year is about to begin, Chinese ask our fortune based on Sheng Xiao, Chinese Zodiac Sign, (生肖). In Chinese Zodiac, each of us belongs to one of the twelve animals based on the year we were born. If you don’t […]
很多人自問並不迷信,但說到婚姻大事,都禁不住還是要找易經大師擇個結婚吉日,為求婚姻生活有個好開始。從擇吉專家的角度來看,人的活動要與自然平衡和 諧,選擇吉日結婚的意義,就是讓成婚者尊崇自然,順從自然時序,從而讓成婚者一時好與百年好統一起來。如何找個宜嫁娶的吉時吉日呢?下面可以參考的,是一 些廣泛流傳的擇日基本原則。 一、日子選擇的通勝原則 這裏說的通勝即黃曆,或者稱作皇曆,是在中國農曆基礎上產生出來的,帶有許多表示當天吉凶的一種曆法。黃曆相傳是由軒轅黃帝創制,故稱為黃曆,民間又 俗稱為「通書」。但因通書的「書」字跟「輸」字同音,因避忌故又名通勝。黃曆主要內容為二十四節氣的日期表,每天的吉凶宜忌、生肖運程等。後經歷代先賢的 完善,對婚娶的日子有如下的原則: 1、大吉之年份 雙春 指在年頭及年尾有兩個“立春”之年。由於春有一年之始及開枝散葉的象徵意義,所以被認為特別宜嫁娶。 閏月 指該年在農曆中有閏月,即共有十三個月份。由於“閏”有滋潤、豐收之意,所以象徵夫妻有愛情滋潤,恩愛和睦。 雙春兼閏月 “雙春”和“閏月”都是宜嫁娶的年份,一年中既有“雙春”,又有“閏月”,自然喜上加喜了! 2、不宜結婚的年份日子 盲年 指整年沒有“立春”的日子,通常“雙春”的下一年就是“盲年”。不過“盲年”亦有吉日,所以基本上盲年結婚也無不可。 節日 避免一月,以免與過年這個大節相沖。避免陰氣極重的清明和盂蘭節,即三月和七月。 三娘煞 相傳月老不為三娘牽紅線,使她不能出嫁。基於報復心理,三娘喜與月老作對,專門破壞新人之喜事,故每月的三娘煞之日,即初三、初七、十三、十八、廿二 及廿七,便不宜結婚。 新人及親屬的生日 避開新人自己及雙方父母、未婚兄姐的生日。若雙親已經逝世,則避開其生忌、死忌。 喜沖喜或喪沖喜 一年內,家裏最好不要辦兩次婚禮。若家中有直系親屬辭世,該年便不宜辦喜事。 二、日子選擇的特殊原則 通勝吉日並非放諸四海皆准,因為個體是有差異的,嚴格來說還要考慮結婚者的出生時間。 一般而言需要遵循如下原則: 1、 用男、女雙方的出生日期時間推算出最吉利的婚嫁時日這個「吉日」必然是一個有「貴人」出現的日子,五行上適宜辦喜事、不能與男方的財星及女方的官星相沖 (財官多者例外)。 2、 所擇日子不與雙方家長的生辰八字相沖這個「吉日」至少不能與雙方父母八字的用神(需求五行)相沖,不能與雙方父母的食傷星相沖(食傷重者例外)。 3、所擇日子不與卦象相沖一些人不能確定自己準確的出生時間,只有通過占卦來確定日子,這個日子不能與卦象規定的官星日財星日相沖。 不過,話說回來,選擇結婚吉日並沒有想像中的那麼難。總體的原則是:日子要比月份重要,月份要比年份重要。盲年亦有吉日,所以,不必太在意所謂的盲年 之說,而無謂的把婚期拖後或者提前一兩年。 我們的建議是:首先根據你們設想的婚禮形式和當地的氣候特點選定結婚的季節。例如,若是想辦戶外婚禮,則要選在晴朗少雨、冷熱適宜的季節。同時,還需要考 慮親友參加婚禮的難易程度。如果有很多想邀請的親友都不在本地工作,則應該選擇在十一等長假。其次,還要考慮新人雙方的工作和學習情況,儘量避免在考試前 或者專案攻關階段籌辦婚禮,造成分心。最後,也不能忽視長輩們的意見。
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